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Cool Kind Kid

I’m Proud to be an American

When the kids came into class, Ms. Gilmour laughed because they were all wearing some red, white and blue, She asked, “Why are you wearing patriotic colors?” Tanner replied, “I knew that we would be talking about the 4th of July holiday coming up.” “We all got together and decided it would be fun to show our patriotism by wearing the colors of our flag,” explained Nicole. Ms. Gilmour said, “Well, you have all certainly shown your patriotism. I’m very proud of you for thinking to do this.” She then continued, “Do you wear patriotic colors on July 4th?” Some answered that they did and others said they didn’t. Rudy offered, “I haven’t done that yet, but I think it is a good idea.” Truman the dragon added, “Green is my favorite color, but I’m willing to add some red, white or blue to show my patriotism.” Ms. Gilmour then asked the kids, “What other ways can we show our patriotism?” All hands went up. She asked Carmen what she thought. Carmen replied, “We can fly our flag.” All the kids agreed that was a good idea. Stephen added, “We can go to the 4th of July parade.” Everyone agreed that was fun to do. Tanner was looking at Ms. Gilmour and asked, “Last year and the year before we learned a patriotic poem and performed it at the parade.” She said, “I remember that. Did you enjoy that?” Truman spoke up and said, “That was a lot of fun. Can we do it again?” Ms. Gilmour said, “Sure.” She then asked, “Who remembers the special guest who came and told us a lot of information about our flag?” Almost everyone remembered, but Rudy was first to answer. “Proud Patriotic Paul,” he said. Everyone high-fived Rudy. Nicole stood up and paraded around the room. The kids all looked at her and asked, “What are you doing?” She replied, “At my school we have a lot of ways to celebrate the 4th of July. We plan our own school parade. In art class, we make patriotic posters to hang in the classrooms and hallways. We review a lot of history that tells us about the founding of our country.” Ms. Gilmour said, “That’s great, Nicole. Do all the students like to do that? Nicole replied, “Yes, everyone is excited about it.” Tanner added, “I took the poem we learned here, Proud Patriotic Paul’s ‘Freedom,’ to my school last year so we could learn it there. We made it into a rap and performed it for the other students.” Truman gave Tanner a thumbs-up and said, “What a great idea. I’m going to do that also.” The kids were excited to go back to their schools and encourage their friends to be more patriotic. Ms. Gilmour then suggested that they make it a Cool Kind Kid Challenge™ to be more patriotic, show more gratitude for our freedom, to attend patriotic events, and to thank veterans for the freedom we have today. Proud Patriotic Paul’s Poem —“Freedom” Freedom for me Freedom for you Available to all In the red, white and blue Respect our flag Our country, too And each person here So they’ll respect you Take care of our land Water, trees and shore If we don’t do that They will be no more Show that you care Be grateful, too For all that we have In the red, white and blue

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Upstanders are cool! Bystanders are uncool!

When Tanner, Rudy, Carmen, Nicole, Stephen and Truman the Dragon came into class they were excited to continue their talk from the last time. Ms. Gilmour greeted each and asked, “Who wants to start telling us about what you found on the Web about being Upstanders versus being bystanders?” Truman the Dragon answered and said, “I found a site called BullyBust.org. They say that it’s everyone’s responsibility to put a stop to bullying. They encourage being Upstanders instead of bystanders. They have 10 ways to be an Upstander. ‘1. Learn more about mean, cruel and bullying behavior.’” Ms. Gilmour asked the class, “Why do you think that is important?” Tanner said, “So we know what bullying really looks like.” Nicole added, “So we know when a friend is being bullied and can help them.” Stephen spoke next, “So we can learn ways to prevent the bullying.” “All good reasons,” Ms. Gilmour responded. Truman continued, “#2. Help others who are being bullied.” Carmen raised her hand and said, “We should do that so someone might do the same for us.” Tanner added, “That’s The Golden Rule in action.” Everyone agreed The Golden Rule would help in bullying situations. Nicole shared, “We might make a new friend if we are the only one who can help the person being bullied. We might be the only one who sees it happen.” Rudy added, “I don’t think I’d feel good about myself if I was the only one who saw bullying and did nothing to stop it.” Next, Truman shared “#3. Stop untrue or harmful messages from spreading.” Everyone started talking about how cyberbullying is getting bigger and bigger, and how they know more and more kids who are being hurt by it. Ms. Gilmour then asked, “What are some ways to stop this kind of bullying?” “Don’t send an unkind message on to anyone else,” said Nicole. Tanner added, “If you know who started a rumor or gossip, tell them that it isn’t cool, or funny.” Rudy said, “We need The Golden Rule here, too; stop and think how you would feel if there was a rumor spreading about you.” Ms. Gilmour summed up by saying, “Don’t say, post or text anything you wouldn’t want someone to say to or about you.” Truman continued with “#4. Get friends involved.” Rudy looked at the other kids and said, “I see a challenge here. We’ve talked a lot about getting our friends to be Cool Kind Kid Challengers. I think we can get more kids to be Upstanders if we make it a Cool Kind Kid Challenge. Nicole said, “I like that idea.” Carmen added, “We can ask kids to spread the word that ‘Cool Kind Kid Challengers are tough enough to be Upstanders.’” Stephen continued, “Cool Kind Kid Challengers are too cool to be bystanders’” Truman ended with, “Cool Kind Kid Challengers are tough enough to defend a friend who is being bullied.” Ms. Gilmour said, “Challenge your friends and we’ll learn more next time.” Special thanks to bullybust.org. Note to Parents From Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the U.S. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up-to-date research, articles and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Anti-Bullying and Social Skills Tips from Barbara on Mondays, Tanner’s Tuesday Tips on Tuesdays, Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Thursdays and our newest contributor, Oliver’s Tips on Fridays. We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We’d love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids, and how you have successfully dealt with bullying. Go to http://www.facebook.com/coolkindkid To send photos and stories, and give your permission to post, go to info@coolkindkid.com

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Upstander, not Bystander!

Ms. Gilmour greeted each of the kids with a smile and a high-five. Tanner, Nicole, Rudy, Carmen, Stephen and Truman the Dragon all greeted her the same way. When they were settled down, she asked, “Who remembers what we talked about last time?” Rudy replied first. “Don’t stand by and watch bullying happen.” Nicole added, “Don’t be a bystander.” Carmen said, “I found out that bystanders can be part of the problem.” Ms. Gilmour said, “Carmen, I see that you did what I asked all of you to do before class this time.” Carmen smiled, thanked her and continued. “Some bystanders help start the bullying and even join in.” Stephen added, “That’s not cool.” Carmen continued, “The bystander often laughs or gets others to watch the bullying, like it’s okay, which it’s not! But the worst is when kids are silent because then the bully thinks they agree with what is going on, and the poor kid being bullied feels so alone.” The kids all had some sad things to report about similar things they had observed. Ms. Gilmour then asked the other kids to share what they had learned on the Internet about being a bystander, and about the need for kids to be UPSTANDERS instead. Nicole raised her hand and said, “The Bully Project says, ‘An Upstander is someone who recognizes when something is wrong and acts to make it right.’” Everyone agreed with that. Stephen said, “I found a site called Together Against Bullying that encourages kids to be Upstanders; to move from silence to action.” Carmen added, “That’s where I found my information.” Stephen continued, “It says, ‘Research shows that others speaking out or taking action stops bullying behavior over half the time within seconds!’” Now the kids were all talking at once. They all thought that if the bullying could be stopped so quickly, why weren’t more kids being Upstanders instead of bystanders? Tanner jumped into the conversation and said, “That site gave tips on how to be an Upstander, but also reasons why more kids aren’t doing it.” Truman asked Tanner, “What were the tips?” Tanner went on, “First was it takes COURAGE. It’s not easy to tell a friend who is bullying to stop.” Nicole added, “Yes, because they might start bullying you.” Tanner agreed that could happen. He continued, “It takes ACTION. It suggests speaking up with just three words, ‘That is bullying!’ can cause it to stop.” Tanner then said, “The site says, ‘It takes ASSERTIVENESS to tell a friend how their actions are making you and others feel and how it affects everyone.” Ms. Gilmour added here, “It takes confidence and being a Cool Kind Kid to do that.” Tanner finished with, “It takes LEADERSHIP. Upstanders are leaders in their social group, helping others learn how to get along.” Ms. Gilmour said, “I’m sorry that we don’t have time today to hear what the rest of you learned. Until next time, remember, COOL KIND KIDS ARE UPSTANDERS!” Note to Parents From Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the U.S. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up to date research, articles, and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Anti-Bullying and Social Skills Tips from Barbara on Mondays, Tanner’s Tuesday Tips, on Tuesdays, Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Thursdays, and our newest contributor, Oliver’s Tips on Fridays. We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We’d love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids, and how you have successfully dealt with bullying.

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Be a Bully “Upstander”

Ms. Gilmour, the teacher, greeted each of the kids as they came into class. Tanner, Nicole, Stephen, Carmen, Rudy and Truman the Dragon all greeted her in return. She began by asking, “Do any of you remember what we talked about last time?” Some had their hands up, and others had blank looks on their faces. Tanner said, “We’ve been talking a lot about bullying.” Carmen added, “We talked about kids who bully, and kids who are bullied.” Then Rudy jumped in and said, “But last time we talked about kids who see bullying happening, but don’t do anything about it.” Ms. Gilmour then said, “And what did we call kids who do that?” Truman the Dragon sadly said, “They are bully bystanders.” She then added, “Truman is right; they are called bully bystanders. They don’t do anything when they see someone being hurt or picked on. How would you feel if you were the one being hurt?” Everyone said that wouldn’t be kind or cool. She then went on, “If bully bystanders ‘stand by’ and don’t do anything, what might we call someone who sees bullying happen and does do something about it?” The kids weren’t sure about that question. Ms. Gilmour then said, “I went on Google and found that The Bully Project, STOMP Out Bullying and Bully Bust are some of the organizations that support being a “BULLY UPSTANDER.” Ms. Gilmour continued, “Now let’s see what we can do to be Bully Upstanders.” Truman was waving his hand. “Don’t we have to know what bullying is first?” Ms. Gilmour agreed that was right. So she said, “Then the first thing to do is to learn which things are bullying, why kids bully, where it takes place and how it affects kids.” Rudy added, “When we see someone being bullied, we should report it.” Everyone agreed that was a good thing to do. Nicole said, “We need to get our friends involved, just like we have been with the Cool Kind Kid Challenge.” Ms. Gilmour added, “So let’s make this a challenge; get more kids to be bully upstanders.” Stephen said, “I know lots of kids who are spreading nasty, hurtful rumors on the Internet. Maybe we need to stop doing that and get our friends to stop doing that, too.” Tanner added, “I see kids who are alone in school and who are getting picked on. We should be friends to them. We could eat lunch with them. I think a Cool Kind Kid is the one who shows kindness to someone and doesn’t have to hang out with the ‘cool’ kids.” There were lots of high fives for that. Ms. Gilmour ended the class by asking the kids to Google BULLY UPSTANDERS and see what else they could find out. “When you come back, we’ll continue talking about Bully Upstanders and how they can help prevent bullying from happening.” The kids all gave that a thumbs up as they walked out of class.

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Bully Bystanders

All the kids came into class hugging each other and saying, “I love you!” Ms. Gilmour looked at them and laughed. “I see that you remembered what we talked about last time,” she said. “How did your families like your saying those three little words every day?” Rudy replied, “My older brothers thought I was crazy, but after a while, they started doing it, too.” Nicole said, “My parents wanted to know why I was doing that, and I told them that I wanted us to be closer. Then they began saying those words more often.” Truman the Dragon said his family really got into it and started saying, “I love you” to all his dragon relatives. Carmen added, “My mom makes me say those words every time I hurt my little sister. I guess it makes me stop and think how I’m treating her.” Stephen looked at her and said, “Did you stop and think about The Golden Rule? Were you treating her the way you would want to be treated?” Carmen looked down and said, “No, I wasn’t.” Ms. Gilmour said, “Stephen, you made a good point; we show love to others when we treat them how we want to be treated.” She then added, “We’ve been talking a lot about bullying. There are kids who bully, the kids who are bullied and the kids who see bullying, but don’t do anything about it. Do you know what a ‘bystander’ is?” Most of the kids looked puzzled. Ms. Gilmour continued. “A bully bystander is someone who sees bullying going on, but is afraid to say or do anything.” Tanner said, “I think some kids are afraid the bully will turn on them.” Nicole added, “Some kids think that telling an adult about it is tattling.” Rudy added, “I wouldn’t want to be a snitch.” “Those are all good reasons for not helping someone who is being bullied,” said Ms. Gilmour. “But what if you were the one being hurt?” she asked. “Wouldn’t you want someone to help you?” All the kids agreed that they would. “What are some Cool Kind Kid Challenges to help kids learn to not be a bully bystander?” asked Ms. Gilmour. Many hands went up. Carmen said, “Remember The Golden Rule and help others, because you would want to be helped!” Rudy added, “Stand up to the bully and HELP!” Nicole said, “Cool Kind Kid Challengers, come to the rescue!” Truman the Dragon added, “Stand up and breathe fire on the kids who bully!” He was just kidding, but the other kids said there were times when they wished they could do that. Stephen continued, “Kids! When someone is being hurt, telling an adult is not tattling!” Tanner added, “Being a bully bystander isn’t cool or kind!” “Tanner is right, I challenge each of you to convince your friends in school and in your neighborhoods, that being a bully bystander is definitely not cool or kind!” Note To Parents From Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the U.S. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up-to-date research, articles and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Tanner’s Tuesday Tips on Tuesdays, Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Thursdays and our newest contributor, Oliver’s Tips on Fridays. We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We’d love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids, and how you have successfully dealt with bullying. Go to www.facebook.com/coolkindkid. To send photos and stories, and to give your permission to post, go to info@coolkindkid.com.

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Love Starts at Home

Ms. Gilmour greeted the kids as they came into class. Tanner, Nicole, Rudy, Carmen, Stephen and Truman the Dragon greeted her and sat down. They seemed excited to be there. Tanner asked, “What are we talking about today?” Carmen also wanted to know the answer to that question. Ms. Gilmour looked at them and asked, “What holiday do we celebrate this month?” They all responded, “Valentine’s Day!” Ms. Gilmour then asked, “What are we to be thinking about on this day?” Rudy made funny lip-smacking noises at Tanner and said, “Loooooove.” Stephen did the same, and tried to kiss Nicole. The boys all thought love was “yucky.” The girls thought it was “dreamy.” Everyone laughed about the difference. Ms. Gilmour then asked the class, “Where do we learn about love?” Nicole responded, “TV.” Stephen said, “That’s not real love; that’s make-believe love.” Carmen asked, “How do you know that?” Stephen answered, “My family talks about love all the time; especially when I do something that hurts my little sister.” Truman added, “My family talks about love a lot, too. My parents keep telling me that because I am different, I need to extend love to others, even if they tease or pick on me.” Ms. Gilmour commented, “You both just gave some good examples of when love is needed. Do you see where both Stephen and Truman first learned about love?” Nicole jumped up, “I know! In their families!” Ms. Gilmour continued, “If we learn about love at home, doesn’t that mean that we should show our families that we love them?” Everyone agreed that was good to do. “But do we all do that, all the time?” asked Ms. Gilmour. Many responded, “No.” They then started sharing about times when someone in their family wasn’t loving. She then asked, “How often do you say ‘I love you’ to family members?” Not too many hands went up. She continued, “Many people say, ‘My family knows I love them; I don’t have to say it to them.’ Letting family members know how you feel about them is very important.” Ms. Gilmour looked at the kids and said, “We have been talking for quite a while about the Cool Kind Kid Challenge. I’m going to give all of you a challenge. I want you to say the words ‘I love you’ every day, to each member of your family. Use the American Sign Language symbol if you want.” Ms. Gilmour went on to say, “I have some questions you can take home and talk about with your families. These will get your family thinking more about ‘love’ and how it can help them get along better.” 1. What are some ways that we can show love in our family? 2. How can love help our family overlook the mistakes and hurtful things that we sometimes do to one another? 3. How can we make our home a happy one? Ms. Gilmour demonstrated the “I love you” symbol as the kids left class. Note to Parents from Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the U.S. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up-to-date research, articles, and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Tanner’s Tuesday Tips, on Tuesdays, and Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Fridays. We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We’d love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids, and how you have successfully dealt with bullying. Go to http://www.facebook.com/coolkindkid. To send photos and stories, and give your permission to post, go to info@coolkindkid.com.

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New Year – New Effort to Stop Bullying

When the kids came into class after school today, they were happy to see each other. Ms. Gilmour greeted each and asked them how they enjoyed their holiday vacation. Tanner was first to speak. “I had a great time with visiting family. We did a lot of fun things together.” Carmen added, “I had so many relatives around, I couldn’t remember who was who.” All the kids laughed at that. Rudy shared, “I had to share my holiday with my dad and his new family, and my mom’s. It was weird.” Nicole added, “We went away for a holiday trip to where it was warm. It was a lot of fun.” Stephen then added, “My family did some things in the community to help those in need. At first I didn’t want to do that, but after I did, it made me feel good, and I knew it was the cool, kind thing to do.” The kids cheered for Stephen. Everyone looked at Truman the Dragon to see what he was going to share. He stood up to his full height, breathed fire out of his nostrils and said, “We had a family reunion. Dragon relatives came from all over the country. We had big dragons, small dragons, baby dragons and grandma and grandpa dragons. It was way too many dragons for me. We had fun, but I was glad when they all went home.” The kids started asking Truman questions about his dragon family. Ms. Gilmour stopped them and said they could talk to Truman about his “Dragon Reunion” after class. She then asked the question, “We’ve been talking quite a lot lately about bullying and how to prevent it. Since this is a new year, what are some ways you can think of to stop bullying before it starts?” Nicole was first to answer. “Encourage kids to be both kind and cool.” Tanner jumped in with, “Talk to kids about The Golden Rule — ‘Treat others the way you want to be treated.’” Rudy added, “And show kids the difference between the real Golden Rule, and the one too many people are living by, ‘Treat others the way they treat you.’” Ms. Gilmour responded, “Those are all great ideas.” Carmen was waving her hand. “I think we should try to be on our best behavior all the time, wherever we go.” Rudy added, “We should look our best at all times, too. That will help us be more confident.” Everyone agreed that was a good one. Truman spoke up next. “We have talked a lot about the ‘Cool Kind Kid Challenge.’ That will help kids learn that it’s ‘cool to be kind’ and that we need to be ‘tough enough to be kind, too.’” Ms. Gilmour looked around the class and said, “You have all remembered what we have been learning here. Now, I have a challenge for you. Are you cool enough to share these tips with your friends?” Every hand went up as the kids yelled, “Yes!” Note to Parents from Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the US. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up-to-date research, articles, and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Tanner’s Tuesday Tips on Tuesdays, and Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Thursdays. Our newest feature is Tips from Oliver on Fridays. We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We’d love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids, and hear about how you have successfully dealt with bullying. Go to http://www.facebook.com/coolkindkid. To send photos and stories, and give your permission to post, go to info@coolkindkid.com.

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Happy Holiday Happenings

When the kids came into class, they were all excited. Ms. Gilmour looked at them and smiled. Tanner asked, “Why are you smiling?” Nicole wondered what was going on. Rudy just looked at the other kids, while Truman the Dragon puffed out a little smoke and sat down. Ms. Gilmour then sat down, too, and asked the rest of the kids to sit down. Once everyone was seated, she said, “I see how happy you all are, and I’m guessing that you had a great Thanksgiving vacation. Am I right?” They all started talking about what they did and where they went for Thanksgiving. She then said, “And what vacation are you looking forward to next?” Again, everyone said at once, “Christmas break!” Carmen added, “That’s a much longer vacation from school.” Stephen said, “I like the parties we have in December, not just when school is closed.” Tanner thought about that, and added, “December can be one long party month. We have school parties, my scout party, my soccer team party and family parties.” Truman added, “I have the Dragon of the Year Party in December.” The kids weren’t sure about that one, so they asked him if that was true. He said that he was just joking about that, but when his family gets together, it’s like a Dragon Party. Rudy asked, “What do you serve for food, people?” All the kids laughed at that one. Truman laughed and said that dragons like fruits, vegetables and some meat, just like people eat for a healthy diet. Ms. Gilmour then asked the kids, “What are some tips you can think of for being a ‘Cool Kind Kid’ during the holidays?” Tanner was first to answer, “Be sure to treat others just the way that you want to be treated!” “Good one,” she replied. “What else?” Nicole shared, “My family tries to think about others whodon’t have as much as we have.” Carmen added, “We do that, too. We collect toys for kids who don’t have any and help at a homeless shelter. Rudy spoke up and explained, “My family adopts another family in our neighborhood. We get gifts for the kids, make cookies for them and help with a holiday dinner.” Stephen added, “My dad is a veteran, so we visit our local veterans hospital and take cards that we made. We also practice some songs and sing to them. They like that.” “These are all great ‘Cool Kind Kid’ tips. What else can you think of?” asked Ms. Gilmour. Nicole said sadly, “I like getting gifts as this time of the year, but I know that isn’t the reason we are celebrating. I try to be grateful for a gift, even if I don’t like it.” Carmen added, “Always say ‘thank you,’ for a gift, a compliment or for someone inviting you to their party.” Ms. Gilmour ended the class by saying, “You are all ‘Cool Kind Kids.’ Have a great holiday.” “What do you serve for food, people?” Note to Parents from Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the U.S. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up-to-date research, articles and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Tanner’s Tuesday Tips on Tuesdays and Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Fridays. We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We’d love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids, and how you have successfully dealt with bullying. Go to http://www.facebook.com/coolkindkid. To send photos and stories and give your permission to post, go to info@coolkindkid.com.

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Bullying Prevention – For More than Just October

Ms. Gilmour greeted each of the kids as they came into class. They were more excited today than the last time. She asked what changed since their last class. Tanner was first to reply. “I saw some progress in stopping bullying at my school.” Ms. Gilmour said, “That’s great!” Nicole added, “We had a fun school assembly program that told us positive things we could do to stop bullying.” Rudy was anxious to share next. “My school had some workshops where we got to tell about things that we have seen that weren’t very nice.” Truman the Dragon reported, “We did those, too, and some kids were surprised at how others felt with some of the things they said and did.” Carmen said, “We were given tips on what to do when we see someone being bullied.” Rudy added, “I hope all the kids remember what we learned last month. We need to be aware of bullying not only in October, but all year long.” The kids all agreed with Rudy. Ms. Gilmour then asked if they had any ideas about how to keep the positive changes going. Nicole spoke up. “I think some new posters would be good reminders. All the kids would see them in the hallways.” Carmen agreed, “Those were fun to do. Let’s do them again.” Truman asked, “What should we put on them this time? Ms. Gilmour smiled and said, “I have just the thing. We are trying to encourage kids to be Cool Kind Kid® Challengers, so why don’t we put these challenges on posters for your schools?” The kids were excited to get started. All the kids were excited when they left class to see where they would hang their posters. – by Barbara Gilmour Note to Parents from Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the United States. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up-to-date research, articles and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Tanner’s Tuesday Tips on Tuesdays, and Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Fridays.We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We would love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids, and how you have successfully dealt with bullying at your school or in your community. Go to www.facebook.com/coolkindkid. To send photos and stories and give your permission to post, go to info@coolkindkid.com. Cool kind kid challengers… Know rude behaviors can hurt or offend others, so they don’t participate in them. Know that practicing The Golden Rule can help stop rude behaviors. Know that swearing won’t make them look “cool” and that it turns others off. Are careful not to repeat unnecessary words like “like,” “huh” and “you know.” Never tease because they don’t want others teasing them. Don’t stare at others because it makes people uncomfortable. Try to include, not ignore. Know that stopping rude behaviors among kids can help stop school bullying and violence.

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Bullying Prevention Tips

Ms. Gilmour greeted the kids as they came into class after school. She saw a few sad faces. She asked Carmen and Nicole what was wrong. Both wanted to talk at once. Nicole said, “I love school, and I love to learn, but it’s hard when there are so many kids being mean and rude. Why can’t they just be nice?” Carmen added, “I missed my friends over the summer, and when we first came back to school, all were friendly. But now, they seem to be ignoring me and some other kids. Other kids are being excluded.” The boys were listening to the girls, nodding their heads. Tanner said, “I’m seeing the same mean things being done, too.” Rudy and Steven agreed. Even Truman the Dragon, who usually is happy and positive, added that kids on his sports teams were not being nice to one another either. Ms. Gilmour asked, “What is going on here? What do you think is happening? Everyone said at once, “Bullying!” Ms. Gilmour continued, “October is Bullying Prevention Month.” Before she could say any more, the kids all added, “Every month should be Bullying Prevention Month!” She laughed and said, “I agree. We should be aware of bullying all the time, not just in October. What are some things you can say to someone who is bullying?” Rudy said, “I like to ask the person why they are saying that. It makes them stop and think about what they are saying.” “I like that,” replied Tanner, “Or say, ‘What do you mean?’ That gets them thinking, too.” Truman stood up to his full height and roared, “I lean over a kid who is bullying and say, ‘Are you sure you want to say that or do that?’” The kids all acted like they were afraid of Truman. Ms. Gilmour stepped in and said, “You don’t want to hurt anyone, just let them know that you won’t accept that behavior.” Then she asked, “What about dealing with bullying that isn’t so obvious, like a look, a shove on the playground when no-one is looking or a quiet put-down?” Everyone agreed that it is best to report it. Tanner answered with, “Don’t encourage the person doing the bullying.” Nicole added, “I try to find new friends. There are lots of kids who need a friend, especially those who are being bullied.” Truman shared, “We all need to be helping kids learn to be Cool Kind Kid Challengers. Let’s challenge them with ‘Are you TOUGH enough to be KIND?’ and ‘Are you COOL enough to be KIND?’” Everyone cheered for Truman as they left class. Note to Parents from Ms. Gilmour: Bullying is the #2 epidemic in the U.S. In addition to these Cool Kind Kid articles, we endeavor to provide up-to-date research, articles and other news on this topic on our Facebook page. For your kids, we post Tanner’s Tuesday Tips on Tuesdays and Cool Kind Kid Challenger Tips on Fridays. We also post Shocking Sunday Stats to keep this issue in the forefront of people’s minds. We’d love to post stories and photos of your kids being Cool Kind Kids and how you have successfully dealt with bullying. Go to www.facebook.com/coolkindkid. To send photos and stories, and give your permission to post, go to info@coolkindkid.com

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